I really want to try out for my provincial sports team. No guarantees that I'll make it, but I really really want to,and have been working my butt off. Its my last year in this specific divison and this year I have the best chance of making it. But, the big national tournament is in the same month as the one that my family is planning to go visit my grandma, cousins, etc who live really far away, I only get to visit them every 2 years. Is it worth missing this to play for the provincial team?? please help, I don't know what to do!!!

The short answer is no sports are not more important, but if this is something that you are not going to be doing forever then some sacrifice is warranted. I would focus on the sport.

I moved to Japan away from my wife, family, and friends to study Japanese and the tooling industry. I missed so much and am not looking forward to not being able to see them for the next two years, but it will pay off. After these next two years I will be home and can spend time with them all I want.

This is totally opinionated. But, in my opinion; NO. Family is much more important!

My family always comes first.

NOOOOO sports r not more impotant!

absolutely