A romantic date with anyone other than your husband is cheating (even if there was no sexual activity). That's why you regret your action. You have a conscience. Even as children we know when we do something wrong.
Perhaps even subconsciously you see something about your marriage that doesn't make you happy and you saw something in this other guy that you didn't get from your marriage.
Marriage Counselor
One thing is for certain
This has nothing to do with Martial Arts
You need to revamp your life, forget your affairs, try boxing ^_^b
was it with shotokan karate, once you go shotokan you never go back
your in the wrong section
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kw its more sad that you think its me thumbing you down. you have always gotten thumbs down just for answering regardless of what you stated, but now all of a sudden its me thumbing you down. how sad indeed for you. you can believe what you want, i could careless about it
My extra-martial flings were always with another style!
You are in the wrong section.
I think you mean marital , not martial.
I am celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary this year, sometime last year, i met a man thru my work, he is a professional and i seek help from him. He is married also. We have been flirting via text messages for over a year, we went out for several dates, mostly dinners but no sex at all. I have to admit i like him a lot, i miss him and constantly think of him.
I am a very conservative woman and believe in marriage, i feel so ashame of my thinking and actions, even i did not physcially cheated on my husband, i am completely betrayal his trust on me.
After several times (the guy) ditched me on dinner dates, i finally give up and ask him not to text me anymore. Now i am regretted on my action, i don't know how to forget him, this is not a real affairs, isn't it? Why he text me if he doesn't want me? My feelings is very complicated, on one hand, i feel so guilty but the other hand, i wanted more from my so called " affairs" , am i sick?
