This is what you do. Make copies of some of the texts, when you see the kid talking to some girl or girls, go up, pull a couple out, read one aloud, give the girls a copy and say, "Does he have the balls to say these things to you girls, or does he just text this stuff like he does my girl?" (her name) Say something like, "If he goes on a date with you and starts texting, better check to see if he is hitting on so and so while he's with you." It will most likely shame him, people have a greater sense of courage when not face to face.

It's not a good idea to just start beating the kid up, or even challenging him. Girls make the world go 'round, but going to jail for one you are only dating is not worth it at all. You get a criminal record which makes working more difficult, and, you could well accidentally hurt him, and have to pay damages on top of it.

If she is showing you the texts, that is a pretty good sign that she probably wouldn't accept his advances if they were at a party or whatever. People don't generally share that kind of information if they were planning on doing it. If she did, well, hard as it may be to take, she isn't the girl for you. As the saying goes, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Not preaching. But the 1st thing you should have been trained is self control.. Karate kid style. If someone is texting ur girl, you told him to stop and he didn't.. The obvious next question is why is he still textin? Does ur girl respond.. Your girl should be sending him a message at your request "due to the fact it is bothering u" that she would like him to stop texting her.. She does want a relationship/texting etc. not many guys will continue to persue a girl that has blown them off via text.

If the girl says you got no shot..y would he keep bothering

Put ur gf in check 1st.

Does your gf text back, if so then thats not helping, and if it is the case then just tell her to stop, if she does or already has and he keeps going, take it to the police, and tell them the exact situation and say your willing to press charges unless he stops altogether. And that should be problem solved, but you won't solve any problems by beating him up, you will only create more problems, and she may be a great girl and all, but the whole situation itself, aint worth going to prison for.

And when you're in jail for trying to be a hero who's gonna stop him from texting her?

Grow up, that kind of thinking is bad.

Um... how did he get the number...lol

Go to jail that will fix him. Then he can date her and send you pictures.

Dude, read a book or go for a walk. You seriously need a break from whatever the hell it is you're engrossed in. Life isn't a drama movie. You need to get back to reality.

I'm lost here. You're mad at him for texting your girlfriend?

Please do. There aren't enough prisoners in our prison system.

This kid is texting my gf dtf and **** knowing that I'm dating her I know I'll go to jail i am a trained fighter and I've been calm about it and ask him over 5 times to stop and he won't listen I'm willing to go to jail over this I'm not a violent person I am in the fight training for the sport not to feel like a bad ***