Okay so sometimes I switch between back spot and base in my stunt group. As a back spot the other day my flyer slammed right onto my face cuz she stuck her butt out and didn't even say sorry but just stood there. And when I'm basing she grabs my shoulders way too tight and my coach was helping our group and my coaches nail dug directly into my pinky. I didn't even feel it at first but then a few minutes later our left base pointed out that I had blood dripping down my arm. I asked to go get a band aid so we could continue and my flyer asked what was wrong. I showed her my pinky and she said "it's not even that bad". And quite frankly she is VERY heavy. And another time I was basing and I just collapsed because we were in the same stunt position for about 20 minutes and my arms gave out. She fell on me again and everyone blamed it on me even though it was the coaches fault. She's so annoying!

Definitely not a good idea, but maybe next time she acts like that, you will just so happen to "accidentally" drop her.

I think your whole group sounds like a problem: Your flyer is inconsiderate and rude, your coach leaves people stood in a stunt position for 20 minutes and doesn't file her nails short, one of the bases just drops people suddenly instead of warning that their arms are tired and they need to bring the flyer down and the back spot fails to catch the flyer when they lose tension and ends up breaking the fall with their face.

I think you either need to take some responsibility for those problems within the group you have control over and try to fix them or else consider a different sport.

Honestly wen I fly I don't really notice too much when I hit someone it's an accident but I don't always realize it and honestly if you called me heavy and dropped me I wouldn't care if you had a little cut on our finger

Me too!